Yesterday afternoon I was tired. Maddie was too after a big morning of her first ever “ballet” class. Finally, around 5pm I decided to wake her from her long afternoon nap, lest she decide not to go to bed at a reasonable hour!
In any case, it was raining outside and perhaps I had the air set a little too low because it almost felt like a cold fall day inside the house. Feeling lazy, I opened the shades in her room, turned up her chandelier a tad and sank into her glider until she was ready to get up. It took less than a minute before she was rubbing her eyes and asking for a story.
We’ve got a wire basket on the floor full of stories…and Maddie took what felt like an hour going through them all picking just the right story that she was going to “read to mommy.” As I curled up in the glider tucked into a blanket that had been sent from her Grandma in Australia it hit me how special this room is to us and our family.
Photo Credit: Mouse on House for our MLS Listing.
It wasn’t decorated with any one’s tastes in mind but our own. I know the trend in nurseries these days is tilted towards more adult-like spaces and this room certainly doesn’t fit that bill. I know some think large monograms in nurseries are overdone…..but I really don’t care. There isn’t one thing about this room I’d change, except perhaps to be able to stay here longer and keep my little girl this fun little age forever.
Photo Credit: Mouse on House for our MLS Listing.
Her new favorite book is from the Madeline series and it was fun the other night to finally see the recognition on her face, as she realized that some of the pictures in the book we were reading were up on her wall.

Now, when we get to the various scenes in her book she’ll strain around to look at the pages from within that I’ve got framed on the wall. Every element in this room brings back a memory….from me at work late one night trying to enlarge the Madeline pages just so, to my sister running around finding the frames, to my mom making the crib bumper after having just undergone major surgery and enduring radiation (talk about being special–I am pretty sure my Dad even helped her on that bumper), to my sister and husband hanging the monogram….and sheepishly come to tell me it might not be centered where I wanted it. Oh well, do you think Maddie cares?
In any case, each time I actually take the time to relax in this room with my daughter (vs. rushing to get through a story so I can get her down and myself back to the next item on my “to do” list) I am reminded of why we really decorate our homes. It isn’t (at least for me) about having a photo for a blog post or a room that people will envy (not that these things are bad). But rather, it is to create a home that is our family’s respite from the hustle and bustle of everything else going on outside our front door.
It seems intuitive why we would spend so much time and effort on our homes. But, sometimes I wonder if we lose sight? It is special times like the hour or so Maddie and I played in her room yesterday afternoon that remind me of why creating a home is so special. Having a home that reflects our style as a family helps us to be able to relax and focus on our family which is, afterall, the most important aspect of our life.
With that, have a great weekend and enjoy your family time!